By, Avon Chiropractor, Brian Nardi, DC
Had a cool interaction with my wife and oldest son this weekend.
Tony and I were out throwing a football around and I was giving him instruction to improve his throw. With each successive throw he improved as his mechanics improved. He got to the point where he was throwing the ball across the yard with a very good spiral. With each throw, I congratulated him and handed out high fives and hugs.
After the kids went to bed, Suzy and I were talking and I was singing Tony’s praises of improvement.
Then she asked me, “why didn’t you high five and hug him when he wasn’t throwing it across the yard?”
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I realized how my love was conditional in those moments. It’s good because it was specific and a shared moment between Tony and I. Love is meant to be UNconditional. Love for the sake of loving. There doesn’t need to be a reason.
It’s like Chiropractic, just take care of your nerve system. You don’t need a reason why. In fact, if you only take care of your nerve system when you have a reason, you aren’t taking care of it all. It becomes conditional and a reflection of your own personal self worth. In essence, you are telling yourself that you aren’t worth it, that you’ll only care about yourself “when you have to” or “when something goes wrong.” It displays a lack of love.
Love yourself enough to get checked as often as you possibly can and ensure that your power is on.
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