Vision 2030: Right or Relationship?

I’m learning to recognize what is and isn’t in my control.  Control the controllable and let go of the uncontrollable.

Specifically having to do with teens.  This is the phase of life where parents become more coaches, mentors, and friends rather than a parent.  We need to trust they are on their path and they need to know we are here to support them.  The alternative is to plant a firm footing with them.  But at what point do they flip us the bird and disconnect?  Especially when 18 is around the corner.  Or, do we give a little ground to maintain the connection?  It comes down to what matters more to us… being “right” or having a relationship?

We parents know we are right.  The teens know we are right.  But they feel a need to exercise their individuality and independence.  Same goes with patients.  If you’ve left our office for what you thought were greener pastures to realize that’s not the case.  Our door is open for your return.  We care about our relationship.  Plenty have done it before.  Its not a knock on anyone.  We all have preferences.