Have you ever noticed the times when we think we should be talking but don’t have anything meaningful or constructive to say? We end up talking about the weather, last night’s news, or some other unengaging topic that will get us through the time. Sometimes we do it just to be seen as social. We forget that it is just as natural and normal to be quiet as it is to engage in conversation. Often in the office the first words we hear are about how cold (or hot) it is outside. I don’t know about you, but -6* doesn’t feel much different from 20* above.
How can we change?
Imagine if in our own homes we talked less about the weather and more about real matters. Children excel in school and life when they are encouraged rather than hounded. Instead of focusing on what they should do, how much more successful would they be if we supported them? The same holds true with our spouses. When we show honest interest, support, and encouragement our relationships improve.
It isn’t different here in the office. We want to tailor our conversation specific to your needs. We need you to tell or ask us what is on your mind. When you do, even during busy times, we’re happy to help you however we can. Pick our brains, that’s why we’re here. There is plenty of time in the day for everyone and you deserve the doctor’s input as much as the next person does. We only ask that you be prepared and direct with your questions as this helps us help everyone and be considerate of time.
And don’t feel you have to say anything at all. As stated above it is perfectly natural and normal to enjoy the silence. In fact it is a time for you to listen to either your innate or God. Regardless of if your choice to talk or not, you are here for health and we are honored that you have selected us to help you improve yours. That is a topic we take seriously.
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